Iam totaly new to programming and don't know any programming languages .......
But i REALLY want to learn how to make my own games especially RTS games
I want anyone to tell me what should i do to have a quick and easy but good start
(I really wanna make 3D games -.-)
Search the Devmaster forum. There's lots of answers to this question already.
Initially start with 2D games, Java is good programming language where you can start making small gaming application. Start with the smaller game.
Download some good game programming books where you can get detail about the game engine and all the other parts of the game like animation, sprites etc. Make yourself better in physics, the physics concepts are very important with maximum games. Netbeans is good editor to start game coding.
Or you can go with UDKwhich doesn't require knowing any programming language (at least for simple games)